When Is "Enough" Really Enough?
First, let me address the elephant in the room – yes, I promised weekly newsletters, but life has been BUSY.
Between building a new house, helping clients secure life-changing deals, and doing some deep soul-searching, I've learned something important about "enough" that I need to share with you.
The Hamster Wheel of "Making It"
At 31, I've achieved what many would consider remarkable success.
Built and sold a business for multiple millions before 30.
Built a million-dollar consulting business in under 100 days.
Currently on track for high seven figures within my first year of consulting business.
And yet...
I still feel like I haven't made it.
Why?
The Noise That Won't Quit
Growing up, I heard it all: "You're a problem kid." "You'll have a hard time in this world." "You won't make it."
These voices became the soundtrack of my drive for success.
I've been running from them since day one, trying to prove them wrong.
And boy, have I tried.
The Range Rover, the Rolex, the Gucci, the Louis Vuitton – I've collected them all like badges of honor. Top-of-the-line everything for every sport I've played.
But here's the truth: none of it silenced those voices.
This week, my mentor (yes, even consultants need mentors) asked a simple yet profound question:
"How will I know I've made it?"
My heart is pounding even writing this, because I'm about to share something I've never told anyone: I've been trying to out-earn my past.
The Raw Truth
Seven months ago, when I got fired, my mentor challenged me to write down every emotion I felt:
Scared
Embarrassed
Nervous about what my wife and kids would think
Worried about our next dollar
Uncertain about facing myself in the mirror
Instead of sitting with these feelings, I ran.
I ran straight into building a new business, collecting more "stuff," achieving more milestones.
But here's what I've learned:
Your past doesn't define who you are or what you can become.
The Real Question I want you all to reflect on.
When is enough really enough?
When can you say you've made it?
Here's what I'm beginning to understand:
In Business: It's not about the number in your bank account. It's about creating something that serves your purpose while serving others.
In Health: It's not about the perfect body (15% body fat) or diet. It's about feeling energized and capable to live your best life.
In Relationships: It's not about proving your worth through gifts or achievements. It's about being present and authentic.
In Family: It's not about providing the biggest house or best vacations. It's about creating memories and being there for the moments that matter.
A New Definition of Success
I'm learning that "making it" isn't about outrunning your past or silencing old voices.
It's about accepting where you've been, acknowledging where you are, and being intentional about where you're going.
The Challenge
Today, I challenge you to ask yourself:
What are you running from?
How will you know you've made it?
What voices are you trying to silence?
More importantly, what would happen if you stopped running and started embracing your journey?
I'm still figuring this out myself.
Building a new house while selling the old one.
Helping clients achieve their dreams.
Growing a business.
But I'm trying to do it differently now – with intention rather than escapism.
Your past, like mine, doesn't define your future.
Your worth isn't measured by your possessions or achievements.
True success – real "enough" – comes from alignment with your authentic self and purpose.
A Final Thought for you as I wrap up this newsletter.
Maybe "making it" isn't a destination at all.
Maybe it's the moment we stop running from our past and start walking confidently toward our future.
Here's to finding your "enough,"
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P.S. If this resonated with you, if you're also struggling with defining your "enough," know that you're not alone. We're all on this journey together.
